Thursday, July 8, 2010

She's a Rich Girl (Men's Best)

Somehow you got her to date you. She’s hot, she’s smart and she’s loaded. She’s a rich girl, banking and rolling with deep pockets. And then there’s your broke, Average Joe ass trying to keep up with Miss Moneybags. Now you know the truth -- that you can’t keep up with her. But she can’t find that out. No man wants to face that he’s completely outgunned by his rich girl. So, start taking notes, poor ass, because here are some tips on keeping a rich girl happy without spending money.

Be romantic and creative

One of the most important ways you can avoid burning through cash is being romantic. Using your connections to hook up cool stuff like having a friend's band play at her birthday party, cooking for her or the age-old favorite of a candlelit dinner are all great ways to keep the green while dating a rich girl. What you're shooting for is to create experiences for her that others might not take the time and effort to arrange. She's a rich girl, which means she can buy herself fancy clothes and expensive jewelry, but she can’t give herself heartfelt moments that’ll make her melt.

Be ambitious

She's a rich girl, which means she's probably surrounded by guys with money who are living off their daddies and sleeping until noon and then golfing all day. Show her that you have passion and plans for the future. Few things drive a woman wild like a man with ambition and drive. You may be a broke student now, but she should be able to see that if she invests her attention in you now, it won’t just lead to dead ends down the road. Women like to know that a man has a plan to be more and get more.

Keep up your appearance

A fit, well-groomed man is something that doesn’t carry a price tag. You can’t compare bank accounts and you can’t take her around the world for lunch, but you can exercise and make sure you don’t look like crap. You can work out around the house or run outside without spending a dime. Even if you don’t have a brand new Armani wardrobe, you can look like you’re worth more than you really are (on paper.) Clothes will hang better on a toned body, and she’ll find you more attractive. If you already have looks on your side, use them to advantage.

She's a rich girl, but you can still keep her happy...

Talk to her in a way others don’t

She comes from money and money means power. Little Miss Deep Pockets has been coddled, bowed down to and given the world on a silver platter. Sycophants don’t get laid, and they don’t make her happy. Forget how deep she rolls. Don’t be intimidated by her wealth. She’s flesh and blood like you. Don’t suck up to her and hold your own. Tell her like it is and treat her like you would any other person. Don’t overdo it and go out of your way to be a dick (you’re trying to keep this girl, right?). Be interesting, genuine and interested in her.

Stay confident and don't be bitter

It doesn't cost anything to be the man. If you walk around with your head low and your back hunched, you’re going home alone. If she wants to foot the bill, hell, let her. If she wants to do things together that you can’t afford, be upfront about it. But never, ever slink like a beat puppy or be angry at her just because she has multiple zeroes on her paycheck and you just have a zero. If you lose your confidence, she’ll lose her attraction, and you’ll lose the girl.

goin' with an uptown girl

Keeping any woman happy is damn near impossible. But near impossible is still possible. With the added burden of a fine thing that’s loaded, you’ve got another level of intimidation and difficulty. But man up and remember she’s just another girl. Confidence, ambition will mean more to her than any 401K, investment portfolio or bank account balance.

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