Wedding plans

Blog ini kupersembahkan kepada juliana, yg memberi tugas padaku untuk membantu dia memberikan gambaran konsep wedding yg wonderful untuk pernikahanku nanti.
Hopes this help you, since my imagination very good for wedding plans :p Also I present this for my soulmate, karena segala sesuatu akan terjadi jika ada rencana.meskipun aku belum tahu siapa pasangan hidupku hahaha...I have big faith in God !!!

Ok kalau begitu saya mulai :
1.Pakaian
Yg pasti untuk saya pakaianny yg bergaya seperti pianis (yg jasny panjang dibelakang,pendek didpan) , aku rasa aku kan terlihat so gentle and handsome.. :D Untuk wanita aku suka pakaian yg tertutup dan elegant,krn kalao yg sedada pakaianny,kadang aku takut kalau copot...kyaaaaaaaaa bagian tsb kan hanya bole diliat sang suami heheh :p

2. tempat
Yg pasti aku suka tempat di outdoor,seperti didekat kolam renang, walaupun agak gerah ,tp kayany indah banget jika di poolside,apalagi tiap x aku perhatikan, tamu2 lebih suka di outdoor,lebih mantap untuk foto-foto hahah..

3. Acara
Pas nanti acara untuk penyerahan pengantin wanita kepada pria,aku mau menyanyikan lagu "because you loved me" kalao gak lagu yang lirik lagu zorro tuch, meskipun ga bs nyanyi,aku akan membuat moment yang gak bakal dilupain oleh my wife hehe..lalu setelah itu sang wanita membalas juga dengan nyanyian, baru setelah itu dilanjutkan dengan kiss sebentar :p. Mmm gak boleh lama-lama ditmpat umum HaHa Terus nanti kita berdua keliling tempat deh untuk sekedar formalitas dan bagi-bagi kue,dan mana tau ada yg mau foto bareng.

4. Pengapit
Mmm kalau pengapit kayany jgn pakai baju putih lagi dueh,soalny pengantin sudah warna putih,lebih baik warna dadu atau kuning, lalu pengapit ini nanti yang akan memberikan kesan pesan yang singkat mengenai hubungan sy and my wife. apalagi jika pengapitnya cantik-cantik kaya di foto hahaha pasti semakin mantap !!

5. Foods and beverages
Kayanya kalau untuk ini sich yang penting enak aja,gak terlalu masalah buat sy

6. Souvenir
Kalau suvenir aku penginny yang semacam buku kecil yg isinya ttg foto-foto perjalanan cinta me and my wife.
Pasti orang-orang bacanya penuh semangat tuh hehe.

Sekian dulu ya, ini garis besarnya aja..tapi masih banyak yang perlu ditambahkan,tapi masih belum ada gambarannya.
sebenarnya masih banyak nich,tapi sabar yach harus banyak dapat ide-ide dulu..

24th birthday party

Horayyyy!! merdeka !!
Hari ini tepat 17 agt indonesia merayakan ulang tahunnya, namun akupun tak mau kalah!!
tepat hari ini jam 12 siang akupun makan-makan bersama teman-teman cell & sepupu.
akupun berdoa sejak 2 minggu yang lalu untuk event ini, supaya semuanya bisa hadir.
(Lindian, Lidia, Victor, Maria, Diani, Devi, Danny, Stefy, Andy, Karel)
Dan ternyata semua sepupu saya pun hadir, kecuali ada beberapa teman yang tidak bisa hadir, namun sungguh itu ulang tahun yang terindah dalam 5 tahun belakangan ini.
aku tidak lupa itu semua hanyalah karena Favour of God upon me. i really thanks to God for this day. and i believe every day will be better again!
sejujurnya semenjak ketemu sepupu aku ini, aku sangat kaget, mereka semua berubah menjadi cantik-cantik & ganteng-ganteng..haha emang keturunan orang keren sich ya :p

Aku mengadakan upacara ulang tahun ini di The Nest. background restauranny cukup mantap, dan itu membuat mereka ini foto-foto terussss hahah :p
Kayanya sepupu-ku dan aku memang suka difoto kali yach. yes they very like it .HaHa..
I really love my family, dan mereka juga enak sekali diajak becanda, kayanya semua nyambung gitu haha..Semoga kita bisa sering-sering lagi ngumpul sebelum pada married,soalny kalau pada married pasti ada kegiatan sendiri dengan pasangan hahah apaan tuch ya :p.
Dan thanks juga buat temen-temen gereja yang datang, dan membantu untuk mengatur perayaan ini, dan mau mengenal saudara-saudara saya.
Ternyata mereka sudah mempersiapkan surprise buat saya..kyaaa tiba-tiba Victor dengan kue muncul dibelakang saya haha rada kaget juga, dan disuruh wish lagi, akhirnya dalam hati saya sebutin deh wish saya :
1. supaya saya bisa hidup menyenangkan hati Tuhan.
2. semakin akrab dengan keluarga besar, dan aku pernah bermimpi jika kita akan sama-sama ke gereja bareng, saling help each others.
3. semakin jago dalam bergaul, tahun ini saya mendapat teman baru sekitar 50 org lebih, dan aku aku berharap untuk next akan datang teman-teman yg lebih banyak lagi.
4. supaya si "doi" mau membuka hatinya untukku and memberikan aku kesempatan untuk mengenalnya *BLUSHING* hahaha
5. membeli ruko 3 lt didaerah ancol, jakarta.

thanks for all the gifts..really thanks :)
thanks to the Lord who gives me all blessings and favour,without You i'm nothing.
Aku percaya itu juga karena apa yang aku tabur dari sejak januari..hehe so banyak-banyaklah menabur,biar di hari ulang tahunmu kamu akan menerima tuaian yang buanyaaaakk sekali .AMIN

She's a Rich Girl (Men's Best)

Somehow you got her to date you. She’s hot, she’s smart and she’s loaded. She’s a rich girl, banking and rolling with deep pockets. And then there’s your broke, Average Joe ass trying to keep up with Miss Moneybags. Now you know the truth -- that you can’t keep up with her. But she can’t find that out. No man wants to face that he’s completely outgunned by his rich girl. So, start taking notes, poor ass, because here are some tips on keeping a rich girl happy without spending money.

Be romantic and creative

One of the most important ways you can avoid burning through cash is being romantic. Using your connections to hook up cool stuff like having a friend's band play at her birthday party, cooking for her or the age-old favorite of a candlelit dinner are all great ways to keep the green while dating a rich girl. What you're shooting for is to create experiences for her that others might not take the time and effort to arrange. She's a rich girl, which means she can buy herself fancy clothes and expensive jewelry, but she can’t give herself heartfelt moments that’ll make her melt.

Be ambitious

She's a rich girl, which means she's probably surrounded by guys with money who are living off their daddies and sleeping until noon and then golfing all day. Show her that you have passion and plans for the future. Few things drive a woman wild like a man with ambition and drive. You may be a broke student now, but she should be able to see that if she invests her attention in you now, it won’t just lead to dead ends down the road. Women like to know that a man has a plan to be more and get more.

Keep up your appearance

A fit, well-groomed man is something that doesn’t carry a price tag. You can’t compare bank accounts and you can’t take her around the world for lunch, but you can exercise and make sure you don’t look like crap. You can work out around the house or run outside without spending a dime. Even if you don’t have a brand new Armani wardrobe, you can look like you’re worth more than you really are (on paper.) Clothes will hang better on a toned body, and she’ll find you more attractive. If you already have looks on your side, use them to advantage.

She's a rich girl, but you can still keep her happy...

Talk to her in a way others don’t

She comes from money and money means power. Little Miss Deep Pockets has been coddled, bowed down to and given the world on a silver platter. Sycophants don’t get laid, and they don’t make her happy. Forget how deep she rolls. Don’t be intimidated by her wealth. She’s flesh and blood like you. Don’t suck up to her and hold your own. Tell her like it is and treat her like you would any other person. Don’t overdo it and go out of your way to be a dick (you’re trying to keep this girl, right?). Be interesting, genuine and interested in her.

Stay confident and don't be bitter

It doesn't cost anything to be the man. If you walk around with your head low and your back hunched, you’re going home alone. If she wants to foot the bill, hell, let her. If she wants to do things together that you can’t afford, be upfront about it. But never, ever slink like a beat puppy or be angry at her just because she has multiple zeroes on her paycheck and you just have a zero. If you lose your confidence, she’ll lose her attraction, and you’ll lose the girl.

goin' with an uptown girl

Keeping any woman happy is damn near impossible. But near impossible is still possible. With the added burden of a fine thing that’s loaded, you’ve got another level of intimidation and difficulty. But man up and remember she’s just another girl. Confidence, ambition will mean more to her than any 401K, investment portfolio or bank account balance.

How To Know If She Is Interested (Men's Best)

You see her from a distance. Her hair cascades past her shoulders and she is just the perfect height. She walks ever so slightly toward you and brushes by with a quick glance over her shoulder. Was that on purpose?

Hold on there, fella. Before you go for the plunge and ask her out to dinner, how can you be sure that she is really that into you? Let’s look at the signs and figure this out.

1.She Makes Sure to Say Hello to You Everyday
Did she have you at hello? As lame as that sounds, making sure that you are greeted each and every day is a sure sign that she is interested in you. It is a sign that acknowledging your existence is a priority and that she never forgets that you are around.

2.She Includes You in Her Plans
You might be sitting at your cubicle (if you work together) around lunchtime, minding your own business as you watch the paint dry. You hear that oh-so-familiar laugh of hers as she converses with the people in the next row. If you suddenly get tapped on the shoulder and you turn around to a lunch invitation with her and the gang, then that is a definite good sign.

3.She Touches Your Arm While You Talk to One Another
As slight as it may be, there is nothing like her touching your arm whenever she responds to something that you just said. This contact could be a sign of flirting or her way of saying, “ask me out already.”

4.Suddenly, She’s Into Baseball Too
You might have mentioned a couple times that you play baseball on the weekends or show up on Casual Friday with a cap on. Regardless, she’s taken notice and surprises you one day with a question about the doubleheader over the weekend. If she is suddenly taking interest in something that you are into, she is most likely interested in you, too.

5.She Dresses Up and Makes Sure That You Notice
You already think that she’s beautiful, but what if one day you notice that she’s wearing something new? If she changed her hair a bit or walks by sassily in a new pair of jeans, it probably means that she wants you to notice. Women love to get complimented on the way they look and if she passes by you a number of times or asks you if you like her new haircut, then she probably did it for you.

So gentlemen, take notice and pay attention. Women know what they want, and what they want may be you.

What NOT to do on a first date (Men's Best)

We all have phobias. There is fear of flying, deep water, heights, and clowns. People cringe about speaking in public. Well, what about first dates?

If you are among the general public who has gone on a first date, you know that it can be extremely nerve wracking or unbearable. Of course that depends on whom you are with and what actually occurs during this time. In fact, it might even actually go well. And date number one could eventually lead to date number two.

So before you put on that shiny number or spray yourself with another dash of that musky cologne, keep in mind that there are certain rules to follow. Sure, you’re probably running ideas through your head of how to impress, but don’t forget about the things that you should avoid.

Don’t Be Late

This goes for both of you. There is nothing worse than being late, especially when meeting someone for the first time. If you are certain that you may run behind, have the decency to call your date and let them know. First dates can be compared to job interviews. Think of your date as your potential interviewer and remember that first impressions count. If you’re late, well, hopefully your date isn’t more time-conscious than you are.

Don’t Talk About Your Ex

We all know that it takes a good while to get over our ex-loves. And going out for the first time since the breakup might be the perfect solution to this problem. But once you are sitting face-to-face with someone you barely know, why would you open up this can of worms? First dates have the potential of eventually turning into something worthwhile and talking about our pasts really spoils the mood. To save yourself from embarrassment (breaking down and crying), disinterest, or the end of your dinner, it would be best to ignore this horrible topic of conversation.

Don’t Text During Dinner

Texting has become the new telephone call. We all text nowadays because it is so convenient for quick little conversations with our friends. However, when your date tries to woo you and you don’t notice because you’re typing “OMG” and “LOL” to your best friend, how do you think that makes the other one feel? That’s right, like chopped liver.

Don’t Forget Your Wallet

Ladies, it’s easy and wonderful to assume that he would pay, right? But what if he doesn’t? We do live in a modern world, and as most people know, times are hard. So be prepared by bringing a little extra cash. That’ll save any potential situation that might arise.

So have fun, flirt a little and enjoy your time out. But don’t forget to follow these tips to ensure a good time!

Si dia tiba-tiba raib?

anda tidak sedang berantem ataupun ada masalah, tapi anehnya sudah beberapa minggu si dia tidak berkabar ria dengan anda.
jangankan telepon,mengirim sms saja tak pernah lagi,yang dahulunya rutin mendekati anda. dia seperti hilang ditelan bumi.
Menurut Greg Behrendt, pengarang He's just not that into you, tindakan menghilang secara tiba-tiba seperti itu membawa pesan yang jelas.

itu berarti dia tidak serius dengan anda, sampai-sampai merasa tidak perlu meninggalkan pesan atau memberi alasan di balik keraibannya.
kalau dia memang suka sama anda atau tertarik sama anda,setidaknya dia akan sms atau memberi kabar kepada anda, dan akan sesering mungkin berada di dekat anda.
atau paling tidak menginformasikan keadaannya.

sama seperti waktu itu saya langsung menghilang tiba-tiba, saya mohon maaf jika tiba-tiba menghilang karena saya masih merasa belum siap. dan sayapun cari berbagai macam alasan untuk membuat dia marah atau setidaknya membuat dia melakukan hal yang tidak akan dia lakukan, contohnya waktu itu saya sudah tahu jika wanita yang saya dekati itu tidak akan pernah mau menegur saya dahulu jika tidak saya sapa dahulu.
so saya mulai tidak lagi menegurnya ataupun menyapanya di chating.

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Anda tipe cuek yang terlalu percaya pasangsan, atau jangan-jangan tipe posesif yang cemburuan ??

"hello apa kabarnya kamu? ingat ngak pas dulu zaman skul kita ke bali bareng,fun banget yah, kangen loh masa-masa itu, tapi kangennya sama kamu duank! "
postingan baru di facebook wall pasangan dari teman lama-nya itu membuat anda panas?
manusiawi saja, namanya juga cinta, pasti cemburu.
bahkan seringkali anda memonitor pasangan/gebetan anda karena kecurigaan yang berlebihan itu sich cemburu yang tidak sehat dan menghancurkan..

Coba check anda tipe yang seperti apa, ikuti kuis dibawah ini :
(Jawab dengan : TIDAK PERNAH ( nilai 1-2 ), KADANG-KADANG (nilai 3-5),SELALU(nilai 6-7)
1. Saya khawatir pasangan saya mengagumi wanita lain
2. Saya curiga pasangan secara sembunyi-sembunyi menjalin hubungan dengan wanita lain
3. Saya khawatir pasangan akan tergoda dan jatuh cinta lagi pada mantan kekasihnya.
4. Saya khawatir pasangan bergaul terlalu akrab dengan wanita lain.
5. Saya khawatir ada wanita lain yang menyukai pasangan saya.
6. Saya merasa curiga jika pasangan bersikap sangat baik terhadap wanita lain.
7. Saya khawatir ada wanita lain yang coba merayu atau menggoda pasangan.
8. Saya khawatir passangan akan meninggalkan saya untuk wanita lain.
9. Saya akan mengajukan sejumlah pertanyaan, jika pasangan pulang terlambat dari biasanya.
10. Saat hendak melakukan atau memutuskan sesuatu, pasangan harus minta izin terlebih dahulu pada saya.
11. saya mencoba menccari tahu isi ponsel,dompet, facebook pasangan.
12. Saya menghubungi pasangan ke tempat kerjanya untuk memastikan keberadaannya.
13. Jika pasangan mengungkapkan kekagumannya pada wanita lain, saya akan mengatakan yang sebaliknya.
14. Setiap pasangan menerima telepon, saya harus tahu siapa yang menghubunginya
15. Saya "sidak" ke tempat kerjanya hanya untuk mengetahui pasangan sedang berbuat apa
16. Saya curiga jika pasangan terlambat pulang dari waktu biasanya.


JAWABAN :
- Total nilai kurang dari 50 : Anda sangat percaya pada pasangan
- 50-69 : anda cukup percaya pada pasangan
- 70-89 : ada sedikit rasa cemburu bersemayam dalam hati, untungnya masih wajar.
- Lebih dari 89 : anda sangat pencemburu, segera lakukan intropeksi diri.